Son: I'm still in the army..
Cousin: and he still wants to study uni 4 years
MIL: (in hokkien) Lao bu si ga gi eh..
Son: (smile) ...
Cousin: (in hokkien) Po sun buay?
MIL: (face cringe and shake head, in hokkien) Bo, xiao lian lang ai zi you lah..
Cousin; (to us) hurry give birth while ah ma still young can take care of your kids for you..
US: smile and let it pass
*in hokkien..