Since the day Ritz junior had company, it has been 10 days and still counting, sounds familiar? hehe..
You-know-who is still feeling sore about this... You-know-who thinks there is a big scam/agenda behind this whole thing which you-know-who does not want to enlighten us and insist we know what we are up to.. omg.. *roll eyes*.. when we have told you-know-who numerous times the reason is just that simple, why does you-know-who have to complicate things..
I must say that my generation is not whatever you-know-who says, it will be treated as an order and followed strictly. Similarly for the different sexes, it's no longer whatever the man says, the woman will just listen and follow. This is just evident of the changing times..
Can anyone please enlighten you-know-who on the changing times or enlighten me about the agenda/scam you-know-who is talking about.. REWARD: S$50,000 worth of...
When I put on the Traditional Thinking hat and the New Generation thinking hat... I get all these..
TT says: Folks want to stay with own kids, especially SONS..
NG says: Kids want to provide the best for the family when they start to have their own family and unlikely to stay with parents, where possible
TT says: Folks tend to decide for kids/kids' family whatever they think is best in an authoritative manner
NG says: Kids are able to decide what is best for themselves with little involvement from the parents, parents will be informed
TT says: Folks' want "face" and are resistant to change, obstinate
NG says: The world is round, shouldn't every individual learn to let go and try to make an effort to adapt to changing times?
Just stating some simple yet harsh facts which will seem tough and unacceptable to those who have been/are wearing the traditional thinking hat..
I probably can understand where you-know-who is coming from when I put on the traditional thinking hat.. but I'm so sorry it really doesn't work in this generation so have to throw that hat out the window! Learn to let go of some things, that is the key to happiness!
Well, there is never a peaceful year in my family, every year there will be something, sometimes light drizzle, sometimes heavy rain, sometimes storms... the tension felt during these dampening weathers is really damaging to relationships but it just have to happen somehow... So I have decided to call all that is happening the "Cai Xin Feng Bao".. haha.. This shall be the 1st epsiode.. I know every household have their own scriptures, and I think ours would be interesting to read... wonder how long it will take for the storm to be over.. Maybe as the saying goes, "Jie ling hai xu xi ling ren" ba..A piece of advice for you-know-who, "The kids have really grown up, time to convince yourself that it's time to take a back seat and enjoy the ride! This does not mean your life is losing its meaning, it just opens a new meaning in life for you. Try looking around you and cherish the one who has been standing by you all this while. Hope you realise it!"
